=    Intriguing Ideas & Unique Perspective 
                 
                Reviewer: The Rebecca Review.com 
                 
                “If flirting were a car, the
                man has his hands on the steering wheel. The woman has her feet
                on the accelerator and brake pedals. He decides where they are
                going. She decides how fast." ~Thomas David Kehoe
                Dating is a journey into the unknown. Not only do you have to
                access your personal beliefs, you also have to equip yourself
                with dating knowledge.
                 Men now expect a woman to call them part of the time, while
                some women are sometimes still waiting at home for men to call
                them. This can promote frustration as men and women struggle to
                fit into the new modern dating pattern.
                 Men and women are traditionally hardwired for fixed masculine
                and feminine roles. In “Hearts and Minds,” Thomas David
                Kehoe shows how men and women are capable of using both
                masculine and feminine energy to improve their relationships.
                 The authors has includes some intriguing facts and
                concepts:
                 The Ancient Greeks had six words for love – we need or
                give various types of love in different stages of our lives.
                 Is he/she just your friend or are you really dating? How
                can you tell? 
                How do you play the dating game?
                 How do you make the object of your desire want you? 
                Does speed dating work?
                 When should you call her?
                 The first section of the book is essential in order to
                understand the terms used later and casually throughout. The
                writing builds upon itself in such a way that I was amazed at
                the organization and fluid association of thoughts.
                 The book is divided into four main sections:
                 Science: 
                The Evolution of the Human Brain 
                How Women Select Men 
                How Men Select Women 
                How Our Ancestors Lived 
                Monogamy and Polygamy 
                Hormones 
                Communication Styles
                 Life Stages: 
                Childhood – Seeking Unconditional Love 
                Adolescence-Seeking Romantic Love 
                Adulthood-Families and Forgiveness 
                Agape-Altruistic Love
                 Relationships: 
                Where Couples Met 
                Flirting 
                How to Write a Personal Ad 
                Dating 
                Sex 
                Becoming a Couple 
                Conflict in Relationships
                 Archetypes: 
                Emotional Control Systems 
                Zeus-Hera 
                Poseidon-Athena 
                Apollo-Artemis 
                Hermes-Hestia 
                Ares-Hephaestus-Aphrodite 
                Dionysus-Demeter 
                Hades-Persephone
                 The Archetypes section is fascinating. You will be able to
                analyze your own relationships. There are 7 couples to analyze.
                These personality types have become recognizable through history
                and here these archetypes appear in the ancient world as gods.
                They are amazingly true!
                 I also enjoyed the humor in this book. There was one point
                when I was laughing so hard I could hardly see the page. Thomas
                David Kehoe displays great creativity and has a wicked streak of
                wit. The scientific explanations made complete sense. You will
                find wonderful quotes, entire passages and bold headings that
                organize the thoughts beautifully.
                 Once I started reading, I could not put this book down. I
                became intellectually intrigued and learned interesting facts
                not found in other relationships books. This is a truly unique
                look at how men and women interact and how you can find a
                relationship of the soul. 
                  
                  
                Your Power to Create
                 
                  
                 
                What You Want vs. Who You Are, February 27, 2007 
                 
                Caroline Myss takes the idea of manifestation to task as she
                plays the role of cosmic historian, drawing on the past in order
                to predict the future. She explores the idea of "creating
                our own reality" and uncovers the origin of this empowering
                idea. 
                 
                With precision, she sweeps aside the accoutrements of new age
                manifestation practices that focus more on what you want and how
                to get it now. Caroline Myss has the wisdom to see that who you
                are and what you are here to accomplish is more important than
                temporary satisfaction through material possessions. She truly
                gets to the heart of the matter and addresses life purpose from
                a new and exciting angle. 
                 
                I really enjoyed her discussion of ego narcissism, the
                entitlement spiritual culture, wealth, human spiritual
                evolution, quantum physics, revolution and involution, divine
                guidance, health and unlocking creative power. 
                 
                If you are interested in learning about a more authentic view of
                manifestation, this presents a wise, thoughtful approach that
                clears the way for you to live the life you have always imagined
                with incredible spiritual rewards. Money won't bring true
                happiness, but living your purpose will bring you true peace. 
                 
                The more I listen to the teachings of Caroline Myss, the more I
                understand my own life. Not only does this CD set address the
                issues of creating your reality, it also presents a global view
                of our current spiritual reality within the concept of spiritual
                evolution. 
                 
                ~The Rebecca Review
                  
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